Learning independence

It is the time! Sit down and eat with one of us (daddy or mommy). He is almost 3yo and in our culture, it's not the time for independence yet. Trust me......while in the western, their babies eating by themselves before they are 2 even less. 


Here....you can see nannies or mommy runs, catches, and feeds their kid. I am one of them hahahaha.....but now, it's time for him learning independence. Many parents haven't started yet, they are still spoiling their kid.


My lil rascal is a very slow boy, in good word he enjoys every seconds in his life hohohohoho
The teachers at his  school told me: "It's his nature mam" what a shame, he needs 45-60 minutes to EAT. Can you imagine that he is the last boy finishes his meal at school everyday? Even all the parents in his classroom know this...geeeeee....


His term break holiday this time used to train him eating faster and independent in 35 minutes.
Anger included for sure.....many punishments as well. I make sure myself that what i'm doing for his goodness.


The keys are still discipline and consistent.....How often I tempted to feed him but i'm learning to be super patient. I believe in one week he will have a better eating maner.


My tips for mums: Becareful with your emotion.........

Sleeping problem-AGAIN!

What do you need the most for having success sleeping method is consistency! I went to my pedi last Monday and after hours waiting, the pedi called to have emergency surgery in other hospital, so we decided to go home. We used to have all the bed routine starting at 8pm, but that day we went home very late, it was at 10pm and because he slept in the waiting room and in the car, he awaked until 11pm!

Then the disaster began......

He desperately needs to be carried and rocked again before sleep!!!!! or being fed! He is such a smart manipulative baby boy, he knows for sure if he plays with his mouth mummy will think he is hungry and mummy will pick him up.....I can't let him starving, if he is really hungry, who knows!

So...i'm going to start all over again! probably tomorrow....yesterday we went to the pedi, and he got vaccination that makes him got fever.....

Thank God I have a great, wonderful, sweet husband who wants to comfort him and accompany him to sleep at nights....